Are You Missing Passion in Your Romantic Relationship?

What is Passion?

Passion is having a desire for something that interests you.  In love, it is having the desire to make your relationship become more effective. If someone has passion in a relationship, it means that they are feeling like they love the person that they are with.

Passion can be explained in many ways.  However, its easiest to understand if you have ever been passionate about something. It might not have been in love but may have been in business or completing a college degree. It is when you wanted something the most. You worked hard to achieve your goal and in return, you got rewarded for it. 

Passion Meaning Explained More in Detail

Image yourself wanting to achieve something in love badly.  You think about it and fantasize about succeeding. You hope to someday look back on your life and see that you are going to move ahead, and you have a passion for something to work out better for you in life than anything else that you ever tried before. This passionate side of you is wanting to have love, happiness and success.

When you step out of your comfort zone in order to make something happen, you show that you have passion.  The meaning can be explained differently for people that have already had experiences with going after something that they really want. 

How Can You Express Your Passion in a Relationship?

For starters, its important for you to understand that you must try to express yourself as best as you can.  People often find that they work well in a quiet or public setting. You must decide on what works out best for you. Perhaps you enjoy talking to someone over the phone and you want to let them know that you have been thinking about them.  It’s important to tell them how passionate you are about getting together and communicating to them how you feel.

If you are not passionate about the person that you are trying to be together with, they will often feel like you don’t care about them as much.  This is often hard for most people to accept. Most people feel that they want to be around someone that shows a deep interest in them. They will often let the other person know that they want to experience love and harmony with the person that they find to be most appealing.

People will often understand your passionate side by telling you how they feel as well. Often, when someone sees that you are passionate about something, they take an interest in you more. They can sense your excitement and vibrant side. They want to come through for you. It allows them to see that their life is moving things ahead and coming to a place that makes a lot of sense.

How Can You Find Your Passion in Love?

Finding your passion in love takes time. It’s something that doesn’t happen overnight.  Men and women often feel that they are not passionate about someone that they can care less about.  That would make sense, right?  If you are in a relationship with someone that you can care less about, your passion is not going to be high.  You can find your passion in love when you find someone that you can see yourself spending your life with.

It’s important to never settle less for anyone or anything. It’s important to ask yourself what works best for you and what you really want to achieve in a relationship. Your passion for someone will grow as you connect with someone that will give you their heart.  You will begin to see that you can do something with your life in a much higher scale because you are putting forth more effort.


Have you ever seen someone that is not motivated? They sit around and feel like everything that comes to them is negative.  It’s a sad sight to see. However, when you talk to them about something that they are passionate about, their eyes light up and they begin to feel a sense of peace.  You begin to see that there is someone inside of them that has not come out yet. It’s the most exciting thing to see.  We often don’t get to see ourselves that way until we have taken time out of our busy schedule to see what makes us want to get up in the morning.

If your lover is not giving you that “wake up” feeling, then its time to either let go of the relationship or keep the relationship and get it to a place where you can care more about it. 

Sometimes, loving relationships do die out. Sometimes a relationship grows when you least expect and its often because you realize that it needed some TLC (tender loving care). 

Imagine yourself being on a deserted island with someone that you could care for.  How would you do things differently than you are doing right now?  What if social media and your cell phone didn’t matter anymore. If you could put your feelings, thoughts and emotions into someone completely, how would you do it? 

Write down on a piece of paper what you feel is missing in your life.  Try to think about what is going to work out best for yourself and go after what you think is best for yourself. Learn how to give and love.  Learn how to give of yourself and to find happiness in who you are as a person. In this way, your life can feel a lot more complete and you can begin to grow as a person. 

It’s important for you to see life for what it is and to allow yourself to have a new beginning. Allow yourself to feel like you can grow and become someone that cares and gives of yourself to others. 

You will often never understand your life completely until you have written down everything that you expect from it.  You need to stay focused on what drives you the most.

What Are Some Passion Examples?

Imagine yourself having the perfect person in front of you. When you are at work, you can’t stop thinking about the person that you want.  You fantasize about the two of you being romantic with one another. You find yourself texting that person all the time and you realize that they want you back in the same way.  This is just one example of what life would be like if you met your soulmate.

Everyone doesn’t have this kind of passion in their love life. People often feel that there is no passion in their romantic life because they feel like something is missing.

I once met a woman that was passionate about a man that she had dated back in high school.  He was a handsome young man that she had dated when she was 17. They were together for about 3 years and then they split up because they graduated, and he went off to college. Eventually, they both dated other people and got married to different people along the way. 

Around 10 years later, they couldn’t stop thinking about one another. Yes, they both came to the same exact road.  They were connecting telepathically, and both wanted one another. They both felt that they had to connect with one another.  This woman was now divorced, but her boyfriend from high school was still married.  She was hoping and praying that he didn’t stop thinking about her.  Her passion was so high for the two of them to come together again. 

As you may have guessed, he wanted her back in his life again.  He loved his wife but felt that the relationship lacked romantic passion and intimacy.  He was disappointed by the way that he was being treated by his wife. She became nasty and controlling in the relationship. 

Eventually, he saw that it was time for him to start thinking about divorce.  However, these two childhood sweethearts reconnected on Facebook.  They both felt that they were good for one another still and decide to meet up in person.

When they met up in person, they felt like their relationship never ended. Their eyes locked and they both felt like they could be together forever. However, he was still married.  They couldn’t kiss or show anything that they were feeling inside. 

He went home after meeting up with her and eventually told his wife that he wanted out of the marriage.  Since he had such a passionate connection with his teenage love, he decided to go back and be with her. Today, they have been married for over a decade and their relationship is still growing strong.  It’s times like this when you say that a bad situation developed into a good one for two people that couldn’t forget one another. 

As you can see, passion is not the same for every person. However, when you have love for someone, it should come out of you naturally.  You should never have to stop and wonder if someone is into you. If you don’t feel like they are into you, they probably aren’t.

You will feel like no passion is there and they don’t see you as their twin flame.  Passionate relationships are not easy to find and don’t happen often. They usually come to us when we are note aware of it. 

What is Your Passion for Life?

If you have a passion for something, you should always pursue it. People that have no passion for something often say that their life is not happy. They often feel that life is passing them buy and they never get what they want. Whether it be in love or money, they can’t seem to find what they are looking for. 

If you have ever chosen a major in college, you often do it because you want to find a career that will excite you. You don’t want to sit in a job wishing that you were doing something else.  You must have a passion for doing what you feel will be your life. When you start working, you will mostly spend 40+ years in your career. It’s important to find something that will make you look back 20 years from now and say, “I am happy that I didn’t waste my life.” 

If you are married or dating someone for 10 years or more, you will either feel that you had a good decade or one that was a complete waste of your time. Some people spend years in a relationship that they are not happy in. They often stay in the relationship because they fear being alone or because Mr. or Mrs. Right never came along. 

You can feel that a person is a complete waste of your time if you don’t find what you are looking for.  It’s important for you to have love in your life always. Allow yourself to see that you can be with someone that will always be there for you. Learn how to make the right decisions now so that you won’t have regrets 10 or 30 years from now.

Making the right choices today are what will make you happy tomorrow. It’s never to late to change your life.  You will find that your passion comes out of your soul as you step out and do what makes you feel complete as a person.

Learning how to love and give of yourself is what is most important. You must carefully examine your heart and see that you can figure out what will work for you.  In time, you will be able to see that its your passion that builds trust and a new beginning in life. Starting over again is often what makes us find what we are looking for.  It’s important to get advice from friends and family that can give you their opinions.  We often don’t know or even understand ourselves and therefore, having a friend tell us what they think about our lives will make all the difference.

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