Love Seems Tougher Today Than It Did 10 Years Ago


Have you noticed that a lot of people these days are complaining about their love life?  It doesn’t seem fair that you put all your eggs in one basket and then your love life turns out to be a shamble. You may be asking yourself why and what you may have done wrong. Love is often something that a lot of people don’t understand completely. One must dig deep into their heat and try to understand why they are seeking love to begin with.

As a psychic, I am often asked what I see in someone’s love life. I often see a lot of pain from broken relationships.  Ten years ago, people seemed to want to have loving relationships a lot more than they do right now.  Many people go through stages in their love life. One minute they feel that a soulmate is in their life and the next minute, they say that the soulmate is gone. This can be a tragedy for most people. There is nothing worse than putting all your eggs in one basket and then getting hurt by the person that you thought would come through for you. 

It’s important to not stay to focused on one aspect of love. In fact, its important to just look at your life and try to understand what comes to you more naturally. If you believe that you are led to someone that is going to love you, then its important to accept it and try to walk with it.  There is nothing worse than feeling like the person that you are with has betrayed you. 

In today’s world, people are getting more sick and tired of broken relationships. More people are beginning to think about love and wondering if a relationship is even worth it anymore.  This kind of thinking didn’t exist 10 years ago. In my opinion, people had a lot more hope. Today, love has grown cold in the world and most people are asking themselves if they are meant to have someone in their life that will always love the or not. I must say that love is real and powerful. It does tend to move us in a way that makes a lot of sense.

If you think about it, love is worth it, but we must be patient for it to come to us. Not every person is going to agree with the choices that you make in your love life. All that you can do is hope that someone will come through for you and then work with what you have.  Love does happen to the best of us and sometimes, we must put behind something that has hurt us. Look at life and say, “I forgive those that have hurt me.” After you have said this, learn how to listen to the inner voice inside of you and take a chance on love again. This is something that will often help you to get to the next stage of your life. 

Trouble Falling in Love

Falling in love is hard to do in the 21st century.  Many relationships last around a month or two and then fall apart. Even couples that stay together for a few years, start to break up. It’s to easy to think that the “grass is greener” on the other side. It’s hard to imagine yourself being with someone that doesn’t want to be together with you.  It’s hard to imagine yourself finding the love of your life and then having it quickly disappear from your life.

Love is not easy to find these days because most people have the idea that they can do better if they would only find the perfect match. Love is never easy because you must put your heart out there for people to want to attach themselves to.

It’s important to stick with what you have if you have found someone that loves you. Most people don’t realize this until they are much older in life. Most people find that they could have put up with someone else’s garbage a lot longer if they would have only stuck the relationship out a bit more.  You can easily say that we live in a society that teaches us that we should never experience pain on love. Only get someone new if the going gets to tough. This is not good advice since most people hop from one relationship to the next rather easily. This is often a difficult thing to see yourself in.

Finding Love is Impossible

When you have a society that believes that they must have the perfect love life, its impossible to have love. Often, people date and find out that they are not compatible in a certain area. Instead of fixing what is wrong, they break the relationship apart and date someone new. It’s hard to get someone to love you now a days because mostly everyone has an ex that they are still in love with. 

If you date someone, you will find that they are often still interested in an ex that they had dates years ago. They are often not telling you this, but you do sense it as you get into the relationship.  When someone’s life is attached to someone else’s, it’s hard to win their love over. You can only try and then say that you want to get someone else to give you what you need as well.  You can find love, but its hard now a days because people are dating younger.  Once you meet someone that you are interested in dating, they have probably already been with many others before you. Now you must give them the love that they are looking for and their heart has been broken so many times that they don’t see any reason to trust you. Winning someone’s heart after they have been hurt can take years. Gaining trust is not easy and this often takes time for the relationship to come together.

Old School True Love is Hard to Find

The best love that you will ever feel is from your first true love. The feeling that this person belongs to you forever is something that nobody else can ever take away. Once that first love breaks your heart, its often hard for love to feel pure again. The main reason is because you tend to feel that its hard to trust again. 

When someone has showed you that they are betraying you and making you feel like they are the boss and you are not, its often hard to imagine things getting better.  It’s hard to imagine someone else coming into your life and giving you that same genuine care that you first felt.

We often find that old time love when we are teenagers in high school. It is often our first childhood sweetheart that we have dated.  We often look at that person and feel like we are going to be with them forever. We often look at them and feel that we can make the relationship become much more impactful over time. 

It’s important to always look at your life and feel that you can find that true love again if you clear out your chakras. We often like to hold onto bad memories. These memories often make us feel that we must hold onto someone that has hurt us.  When we forgive and let go, we tend to move on a lot easier. You only need to do around 10 minutes of meditation a day.  Focus on what makes you feel a lot happier and more content as a person. 

Is Love Easy or Hard?

In the 21st century, love is hard. It is not supposed to be this difficult. However, when you have a society that wants to continue to sleep around with one another and hop from one relationship to the next, it makes love very complex.  The problem that most people face is that when they meet someone new, they are marrying into a relationship that is often hard to find.  You can easily look at your life and feel like you can come into being.  You can come into what you want to be and do in your life.

Love is hard because we often find that the person that we are in love with may be juggling multiple relationships or perhaps doesn’t want you back in the same way that you want them.  

Love today has gotten cold.  Most people feel that when they are talking to someone, they don’t know what their true intentions are. You will often see yourself as being someone that makes your days happy for the most part. Our connection to another person takes time. However, most men and women today are not as honest with one another. They allow lust to take over them and go after every desire of their heart. This causes problems with couples because discipline gets lacked.  Its important to only go after someone that will fit the mold of what you really want. 

You need to only ask a person what their true intentions are with you. Do they want to get married or what is the future going to look like?  What is the future going to hold for every person?

It’s Hard to Find Someone

Yes, it is hard to find someone that will love you forever. The problem is that in relationships, most people are arguing or doing a lot that makes themselves feel happy without caring about the other person that they are with. Most men and women find that when they fight with one another, they want to end the relationship.

The old school way of having a relationship was to stick the relationship out no matter how long or hard it took. If the person that you are with has issues, you work on them together.  Divorce was not in the vocabulary.

Today, most problems that arise could be dealt with, but couples think that breaking up is easier than dealing with the other persons “stuff”.  Love is not as it once was because people are being raised by their parents to believe that they don’t have to work on relationship troubles. Its easier to just go out and find someone else that you want to be with forever. 

You Will Never Find Another Love

Its never easy to find another love that is perfect for you once your ideal person walks out of your life. This is because you have built a bond with them and a romantic one at that. You may feel that you loved them way more than they ever loved you.  It’s never easy to walk through life feeling that you never found the person that you were meant to be with. It’s never easy to find love once our heart has been broken.

It’s easy to look at your life and feel that everyone that you meet is not measuring up to what you once had with your ex. However, if you take things one step at a time, the universe will lead you to someone that will fulfill your needs. You only need to have faith and believe that the right person is coming for you. It’s only a matter of time. 

In some moments, you may feel that you will never find love again. However, this could not be further from the truth.  You will find love, but not when you want it. It often comes to us when we least expect.

How to Love Harder

  • Always put the other person first. Address their needs first before your own.
  • If your partner is struggling, ask them what you can do to make their life easier.
  • Never use the word divorce or think of it as an option.
  • Learn to listen to what the other person wants and try to make changes to fulfill their needs first.
  • Give of yourself when your partner wants you by their side.
  • Put the other persons needs first before your own.

Find the Love of My Life

Finding the love of your life takes time.  Its all about learning and growing as a person. When you look at your life, you tend to feel like things are going to evolve for you. You begin to look at yourself and feel that you can take matters into your own hands along the way.

Put yourself out there and try to find people to date that will be willing to hang out with you.  Sometimes, you will not find what you are searching for right away. However, you can easily learn how-to walk-through life having a lot of less problems if you put your mind into hanging out with people that make a big difference for you in their lives. You can easily look at what you have created and then go after what will work out well for you. You need to only look at what you want in life and see that you can take on new challenges along the way.  Learn to listen to what is happening inside of you and look towards the stars for answers.

You will find a lot of what you are looking for in your astrology chart. When you map out your chart, you get to see which zodiac signs relate to you best. It’s always best to find a matching astrology sign because you begin to see that there is something evolving for you. It is known that you can find love based on your best love match. Love matches often come to us when we least expect. We often want to learn what we want in life by going after what is most appealing. 

You can easily find what you are looking for by taking your time to discover what is new. Everything in life takes time to move along and you can easily find what you are searching for by going after what is most important.

When Love Finds You

When love finds you, it is the greatest feeling in the world. You tend to go after what makes great sense for you. You can begin to listen to your own heart and see that you can have an intense love feeling for someone and then go after what is going to work out best for yourself. You can easily look at what you feel and learn from your past mistakes. 

You need to look at the powers of the universe and see that you can take on new challenges that have a much deeper meaning for you. It looks like there is always something that will be hurtful and painful at times. You need to only see yourself and find that you are searching for something that will continue to move ahead in your life. It looks like there is something here that makes a whole lot of sense for you.  Over time, you will be able to see that your love life finds you then the other way around.

Love Horoscope

Let us start this article by saying that millions of people read their love horoscope every single day.  It is one of the most searched terms on Google.  With over 1,000,000 people searching their astrology sign worldwide.  If you decide to ever get your romantic life on track, you may try reading your love horoscope.  A great book written by Linda Goodman is called, Love Signs a New Approach to the Human Heart.  This book is you’re A to Z guide for horoscopes.  It has 944 pages of content related to whom you match up best with.  If you are a Capricorn, you may match up best with a Virgo.  There are many star signs that people enjoy reading about.

Some of the authors love sign combinations are:

  • Aries to Aries
  • Gemini to Libra
  • Gemini to Sagittarius
  • Taurus to Pisces
  • Aries to Pisces

There are literally thousands of combinations that zodiac signs can have.  The biggest fans of love horoscopes are women between the ages of 18 and 35.  This makes sense since most people that want love and marriage fall into this age group.

Love horoscopes are not always fun to read.  They can be disastrous if you find out that the person you are involved with is supposed to be an opposite match for you. What to do when your astrology chart says to avoid someone that you are involved with?  Linda Goodman teaches that Gemini teaches us that love is awareness and you learn that love is a feeling.  This is interesting since many people believe that love is more than a feeling.  For some, love is a soulmate connection.   This means that someone was born to be with you. As you get into astrology, you may find that your exact time of birth tells you what will happen in your life.  Astrology has been practiced for over 10,000 years.  It is perhaps one of the oldest religions that is making a comeback in the United States.

From the moment we are born, we have wanted to feel a sense of belonging or acceptance. We want our parents to love us and then as we grow older, we want acceptance from our friends and loved ones.

She has sold over 30 million books worldwide.  Linda Goodman is perhaps the most well-known astrologer of the 20th century.  Millions of people worldwide rely on her teachings for a good zodiac sign match.  Astrologers have often been called match makers.  They are known for putting two zodiac signs together in order to make a match.

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