What is a Soulmate?
With over 7 billion people living on planet earth, one must ask themselves, “What is a soulmate?” There are many ideas, theories and facts surrounding what a soulmate is and how you can find one. It appears a soulmate is someone that understands you completely. It is a man or a woman that sees the real you. Have you ever felt alone in this world and yet there are millions of people in your home country?
Psychics often say that we have only a few soulmates in the entire world that will be our true companion. When you find your soulmate, or when they discover you, your life will change forever. Your soulmate will want to be around you all the time and it will feel like you are on “cloud 9”. You will get the feeling that this person can see right through you.
Many people often feel that they have met their soulmate already. However, most people don’t get to meet their soulmate for long periods of time. You may want to meet your soulmate now and yet they won’t come into your life for another decade.
How to Meet Your Soulmate?
In my opinion, the best way to meet your soulmate is through online dating. Today, we are all connected to one another through the internet. When you surf websites like Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Snapchat, Instagram and Pinterest, you begin to feel the sense that you are not alone in this world. In fact, most men and women today say that they prefer chatting with people over the computer than by phone. Nearly everyone in the entire world can gain access to the internet in some way, shape or form. The internet has allowed the world to get to know one another when all else has failed them. It is important to see life as something that will keep on growing with time.
Today, there are millions of people all over the world that have said that they have found their soulmate through a dating website or other website on the internet. Big name dating websites like Match.com and Eharmony.com have millions of people on these sites trying to find love. Ask anyone around you and they will tell you that its not impossible to find love. It takes time, effort and allowing the universe to give you what it wants. We often have no control over timing. We may want love now and yet it seems that every person that we meet is a “sour lemon”. Yes, love is an emotion that every human being needs. When we have love, we can be ourselves because we know that someone has our back.
Is Online Dating Right for You?
I asked 50 people if they had a preference over where they would want to find their soulmate. I was shocked to find that 37 out of 50 people wanted to find love through an online dating website or an online platform. Most men and women told me that they felt a bit awkward meeting someone out in a bar/club or just introducing themselves to someone in the street. Some millennials told me that introducing yourself to someone in the street was more “old school” and that today, millennials want to welcome an easier way of meeting someone online.
Before the 1990’s, the only way to meet someone for dating is if you talked to them face to face. The internet was not around yet and neither were cell phones for the general public. If you were attracted to someone, you would have to let them know by having a physical conversation with them about your attraction towards them. Most men would be shy about walking up to a woman and asking her out on a date. It was often customary for men to do the first introduction because women wanted to be pursued. Today, the world has changed because many men and women ask each other out on dates.
An online date is often easier because you get to screen the person first before meeting them in person. You can even video chat with them in order to let them know that you are interested. Online dating websites have an area where you can give your entire profile to a person. You can post pictures of yourself, family members and pets. You can let the world know your zodiac sign and how old you are. If someone is interested in your profile, they will respond to you and often ask you out on a date.
Senior online dating is becoming more popular for those aged 55 and over. Senior dating is becoming more widespread because more 55+ people are becoming well versed with the internet and how the internet works. It allows older individuals to feel like they can still find someone to date and spend their time with. Today, it is hard to find a soulmate because we live in a fast-paced society. Most people today are more interested in what they can get out of you, then getting to know you.
Soulmate Signs to Look for in a Life Partner
1- Does he/she want you just as much as you are wanting them romantically?
You will often find that a soulmate wants you and can’t wait to see you. They are constantly talking about you to their friends and family. When you meet them online, they can’t wait to log onto their computer to speak with you about their day. They want to hear what you have to say as well. You begin to have a feeling that they were put on this earth to be together with you. You begin to say, “I want to be with them forever and never lose sight of our connection.” Soulmates tend to feel like the universe put the two of you together.
Soulmates often want to discover something new about you. They are always asking you questions to get to know you deeper. Conversations with them never tend to be boring. Whether it be online or in person, a soulmate is romantic with you. They can be romantic with you in words. Soulmates often exchange photos of each other.
When you are with your soulmate, you will never have to ask yourself again who you are meant to be together with. You will simply know that you have found “the one.”
2- Finding your soulmate takes time.
Today, we want everything fast. You will find that there are certain things in life that will not speed up no matter how hard you try. You will find that God is in control of sending you your soulmate. It happens in his time. Finding the perfect job doesn’t come easy. This also takes a time and it often doesn’t happen when we want it to. Getting closer to God takes time and we must seek God out in order to find him. We often don’t find everything that we are looking for when we want it.
In the Old Testament and in the book of Genesis, we find that God gives Adam a companion in the garden of Eden. We read that God says, “Its not good for the man to be alone. I will make a companion for him.” When God creates Eve, she fulfills a side of Adam that nothing in the world can fulfill. She means more to him than all the animals, birds and reptiles that were ever created.
3 – Should You Use a Matchmaker to Find Your Soulmate?
Matchmakers are nothing new. They have been used for centuries in many different cultures to find love. Matchmakers like Millionaire’s Club by Patti Stanger, Elite Connections International and Janis Spindel & Carly Spindel are top matchmakers in their field. They often pair people together through a serious interviewing process. They often want to see love come together for their clients.
Some matchmakers cost nearly $10,000 to fix you up with your perfect love match. Others charge only a small fraction of that if they are not famous. The purpose of a matchmaker is to plan dates for you and to cut to the chase of what you really want. If you are 50 years old and want a 22-year-old spouse, this may take a long time to find on your own. However, a matchmaker often has a list of men and women that are looking for someone older to date.
A lot of matchmakers today meet their clients via video chats to discuss their likes and dislikes. This online connection helps them to see what their clients are looking for.
Matchmakers are great to use if you are not finding any luck on your own. The main benefit of having a matchmaker working hard for you is that they often have access to hundreds and even thousands of the worlds most elite and desirable people. They often give you a profile of who that person is before meeting you. You may find that he woman/man of your dreams has a Harvard University degree and speaks English, Spanish and Italian. Matchmakers are often with you because they want to show you that you can reach much higher levels of your romantic life. I find that a good matchmaker will pair you up with someone that will always be there for you. Over time, you will be able to see that there is a new beginning in your life.
Finding Your Love Connection When All Else Seems Lost
Life is often a challenge. Dating is more complex today than it ever was before in history. The main reason for this is because you can literally fall in love anywhere and temptation is all around you. You may find that you get along better with someone else in your own timeframe. It is hard to imagine that you will ever find love if your relationships keep on failing you. It is hard to imagine that anyone would want to stay in your life in order to someday get married. Love for most people is difficult and hard to find. You may find that its never easy to have a soulmate in your life because they often don’t see what you do.
As we walk through life, we come to see new beginnings forming. Our soulmate often comes into our life when we are not expecting it. It is true that most people find what they want when they are not looking for it. Isn’t it strange that when you are alone, nobody seems to come into your life looking for love? However, when you are dating someone, something unique and powerful begins to happen? You begin to meet new people that show a romantic interest in you? It seems that love is often found when we are not focused on it. Money works the same way. When we are focused on making money, it often doesn’t come to us. However, if we focus our mind on just working, money tends to come into our life when we least expect. Sometimes our fate begins to work for us when we least expect. Life often works like that. It is there for us when we need it most.
Can You Have Romance with Online Dating?
When a relationship starts online, there is a lot of conversation taking place. However, can there really be romance? Romance in love comes in many different stages. First, you need talk to the person that you are communicating with online a lot. Let them know your dislikes and likes. When I had my online romance, it was sweet. I sent the woman of my dreams many e-cards that said, I love you from the start. She told me that I was highly romantic and yet never met her in person. You can romance someone if you put your mind to it. You need to speak from the heart to the person that you are connecting with. Ask them to tell you what they are thinking as well. We exchanged pictures and even phone numbers. When we met in person, we felt like we knew one another for years. It was a true soulmate connection.
When your connection starts online, you begin to strike up real conversation. You begin to feel like you are bonded to that person without ever meeting them. It can be rather difficult at times if you are not having any kind of physical intimacy. However, over time you will be able to see that love builds over time. Online dating is often fun.
Try to think of ways that you can romance someone through a computer. You can still send that person flowers and letters in the mail. You can even celebrate birthdays as well. You can celebrate holidays together and learn to love the person that you are with. Soulmate bonds work best when we feel it right from the start.
You should still tell him/her everything that you feel for them. In this way, you keep the relationship moving along. It becomes highly impactful over time.
Can It Be Your One and Only?
I believe that we have many soulmates, but only 1 can be our one and only. The reason why I say this is because in life, you will always feel that special something for someone that comes into your life and you can’t forget that. No matter how many people you date, nobody else compares to that one special person that your heart loves so dearly. This means a lot.
When you have found your “one and only”, you will know that if they ever slipped out of your hands, you would never find complete happiness. You will always feel like something is missing. I love the song, only you by the Platters. This is a song that speaks clearly about the soulmate connection. When you hear the bond in this song, you will know that soulmate love does exist.
It is amazing how the spirit world brings us together with the person that we are meant to be with. I think that we can all be rest assured that love and dating come together when least expected.
List of Top Online Dating Websites
When choosing a dating website to join online, it is best to choose a website in which you feel identifies you. For instance, if you are a Christian, you may want to choose Christianmingle.com. In this way, you can choose someone that has similar interests as you do. A dating website is supposed to connect you with someone that can talk to you and say, “Yes, we share so much in coming with one another.” If you continue to put yourself out there to be the perfect one, you will find it. I do believe that good karma comes to those that seek out what they want. I always say to keep on looking until you find it.